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On social media - and especially on TikTok - there is a new trend where the creators of the videos choose between two things. With the hashtag #itstricky and, of course, in the background It's tricky by RUN DMC. In this article you will find the best questions! What do you choose?

 

 
 

The basis idea of this new trend on TikTok it is not that difficult. You see two choices on the screen and the person in the video chooses between them. Does she choose TikTok: she walks to the left. Or does she choose Instagram: she walks to the right. Simple.

Difficult choices

Do you also want to do this too? It's not that hard. Just think of informative questions about yourself with two options. So you ask questions that consist of two choices. With the answer you indicate the preference of yourself. By which you thus describe yourself. Do you choose this or do you choose that?
 
In most of the videos on TikTok you see the choices being answered in different ways:

  • The answer to the question says something about the person themselves. This could be something that someone cannot change (left-handed or right-handed), or it could be about what someone's preference is. Do you choose jeans or joggers? And then the person answers with what he or she likes to wear.
  • But most videos are about what someone likes to see in another person. What do you prefer in a new relationship: that your new flame cares about lots of money or that he or she prefers to be sweet? Jeans or joggers? Well, I like to be my boyfriend/girlfriend in ....


By the way, in some videos this unintentionally gets mixed up. Then you have a video with the choice Samsung or iPhone. But does the answer say something about what someone has or does it say something about what someone would want if she had the choice? Or does it say, for example, of what someone wants from a new partner? Sometimes even this is not clear.

List of choices for you

To help you with fun choices and good questions I have compiled a long list of choices below. Sometimes easy, sometimes harder.

I've collected these choices from the videos that were liked the most by you, and where the choices came back in multiple videos. The most common questions are at the top. I also added questions from friends and from students.

These are also great choices to ask as introduction questions. For example, during a first date, blind date or speed date. They are all closed questions which you then naturally continue to ask.

Ask questions about the choice someone is making. How does someone mean it exactly? Or did someone not want to make both choices? Was it not a dilemma? Is the answer about the person themselves or about the partner they would like? And so on. If you do this, then it is better to agree on how to explain the choices. Is it about what you desire in a partner or describing yourself?

A list of questions with 80+ choices

 

What do you choose? Do you choose this or do you choose that?
Taken     Single
Home
Going out
Younger
Older
Fit
Oversized
Junkfood
Salad
TikTok
Instagram
Dog 🐶
Cat 🐱
Call
Text
Chips
Chocolate
Night person
Morning gold
Mum
Dad
Money
Love
School
No school
Brunette
Blond
Movies
Restaurant
Sport indoor
Outdoor
Ibiza
Paris
Sweetheart
Badass
Makeup
No makeup
Disney
Netflix
Gay
Straight
Vain
No way
New cloths
Secondhand
Borrowed shirt
My own clothes
White
Coloured
Books
Videos
Restaurant
Home cooking
Healthy
Unhealthy
School
Work
USA
UK
Late
On time
Public transport 🚳
Private transport 🚲
Athlete Olympic Games
TV-celebrity
Summer
Winter
Nike
Adidas
Piercings
Tattoos
Above
Under
Accent
No accent
Android
iPhone
Freestyle Rehearsed
Jeans
Jogging
Christmas
Easter
Dad 💓
Mum 💓
Sneakers
Heals
Extravert
Introvert
Don't
Do (like us 👍)
Ananas
No ananas
Spelling
Math
Forest
Sea
City
Countryside
FOMO
No FOMO
Tight
Belly
Mums child
Dads friend
Rapper
Rocker
High maintenance Low maintenance
Happy 🍺🍷
Moody
Amazon
Local
Intelligent
Funny
Ex
Nieuw
Beauty
Funny
Wine
Beer
Give
Take
Skater
Athlete
Bold
Hairy
No kids
10 kids!
Lunch
Dinner
Couch potato
Sporty
Calm
Wild
Long
Short
🍐
🍒
Gaming
Sport
FireplacePalmtree
Messi
Ronaldo
13
7
American Football
Basketball
69
Hondje
At home
At the office
Coffee
Tea
Mosquito
Wasp
Potatoe
Spaghetti
King
President
Inside
Outside
New first name
New last name
New character
New body

Do you miss a fun, tricky choice? We'd love to hear about it. For example, via Twitter.